Blueberry Pie and Meeting the Boyfriend

Blueberry Pie RecipeIt has been over four years since my daughter went off to college.  At the time, I didn’t think I would ever recover from Empty Nest Syndrome.  Slowly but surely I pulled myself together and marched on.  I wouldn’t say I got over it, I more or less adjusted to my new role as a mother of a college-age daughter.  In truth, once I finished licking my wounds and rejoined the living, I began to recognize some actual benefits of our altered relationship.  My deepest fear as she went off into her independent life as a college student, was that the closeness we had shared would dwindle and that visits home would be few and far in between.  SILLY ME!  Neither of those things happened.  She travels home frequently and I visit her at school from time to time.  After a brief, but necessary, period when she asserted her Freshman independence, we quickly settled back into a mutually comfortable place in our mother/daughter relationship, closer than ever.  But wait!  Fast forward four years.  Enter boyfriend stage left.
Blueberry Pie RecipeBlueberry Pie RecipeEarlier this school year Jael met someone special.  It wasn’t long before it became obvious that there was something of significance brewing between them.  During our mother/daughter chats, she began to share with me tidbits of their burgeoning relationship.  As her feelings for him developed, my excitement to meet “Mr. Wonderful” grew.  Earlier this week, my Girl returned home from school, boyfriend in tow.  Wanting to make sure he felt welcomed in our home, the natural thing for me to do was to have something home baked for him when he arrived.  Jael had shared with me that his favorite dessert was Blueberry Pie, so Blueberry Pie it was.  Right off the bat I knew I was going to like this guy.  We share an affinity for blueberries.  Things are off to a good start.
Blueberry Pie RecipeJael returning home with a boyfriend has sparked some unexpected feelings for me.  Our little nuclear threesome now includes a fourth.  I’m observing, processing, and contemplating this new dynamic.  Seeing such happiness on my daughter’s face warms my heart, and at the same time, sharing her heart with another person feels slightly threatening.  I’m trying not to judge this unexpected reaction, rather I’m thinking of it as just another step in the process of her leaving the nest.  All the hand-wringing as to what would happen to our relationship when she went off to college was for naught, and I’m certain that this uneasiness going on in my heart now, will also prove to have been needless worry.  Life holds unexpected ways of surprising us.
Blueberry Pie RecipeBlueberry Pie RecipeIn the meantime, a fourth person in my home means someone new to bake for.  Few things bring me more pleasure than filling the bellies of those I care for with fresh baked goods from my oven.  Among all the things I bake, pie is probably my favorite.  Pie crust is the first thing I remember baking as a child, and it has mesmerized me ever since.  This recipe for Blueberry Pie is sweet and simple.  So many people steer clear of making pie because they are intimidated with the crust.  Don’t be.  Practice makes perfect!  Even an imperfect crust leads to a wonderful pie.  And, dare I suggest that even if you never attempt a crust from scratch, there are some very decent store bought versions available in markets these days.  Using one will allow you to pull this bubbling blueberry-filled pie from your oven just the same.
Blueberry Pie RecipeNote:  I have kept my instructions for making and rolling a pie crust quite simple.  If you are a novice pie maker, more detailed instructions can be found at joythebaker.com.




8 thoughts on “Blueberry Pie and Meeting the Boyfriend

  1. Just love this delicious and beautiful pie and the pretty crust. Wishing you the best with the “new” addition to your threesome! I know the feeling having gone true the same with Corina.
    Cheers,
    Judit

  2. Made this today… blueberry is my husband’s favorite so it was perfect for father’s day…. thank you for the fabulous treat!

  3. Those are such pretty shots of the pie! Haha, it feels weird, because I was on the other side! In college, I met someone too. At first, I didn’t want my parents to know. However, he made me happy and was such an important part of my life, I wanted my parents to know and meet him, too. My mom didn’t bake him a pie, unfortunately for my belly, but it went well. I’m sure he loved your pie and meeting you and your husband! 🙂

  4. Just popped this into the oven! I added 1/2 teaspoon of ground cinnamon into the filling. I accidentally added the slices of butter into the mixture of the filling instead of placing them on top… I hope it doesn’t make too much a difference haha.

    • Miranda, I don’t it think adding the butter into the filling should make a major difference at all. In fact, it may have added to the overall filling being more richly flavored. Please let me know how the pie turns out…and enjoy!

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