Kentucky Blackberry Jam Cake

Kentucky Blackberry Jam Cake RecipeWe lost our Mom in August of 2015.  Mom didn’t leave behind very much, she was a woman of few possessions and content to be that way.  What she did leave me and my ten siblings was her collection of recipes, which holds value beyond words.  Several months following her passing, I went about the task of organizing her recipes.  I had brought them back to California with me following her funeral.  It was too soon.  Holding her recipes in my hands, three thousand miles from her Kentucky kitchen, felt surreal and empty.  I was still deep in the early stages of grieving and struggling to deal with the permanence of her being gone.  I gathered together the recipes, mindful of keeping them in the exact order she had left them, and put them away for some future time when I would make another attempt. 

There is so much history and tradition buried in the hundreds of recipes Mom collected over her lifetime.  They tell stories of Sunday gatherings, weekend breakfasts, holiday meals, church bake sales, and the countless weeknight dinners shared sitting around our oversized kitchen table.  No value can be placed on the endless handwritten pieces of paper that fill more than four recipe boxes, several gallon-sized ziplock bags, and even a pink elephant cup that had sat atop her kitchen counter.  Any container could be home to one of her recipes, and many of them were found among the pages of books left stacked as high as a fence surrounding her favorite chair.

I often wonder if the days of hand writing recipes are over.  In today’s world, it is much easier to share these things via social media, and even I am guilty of rarely ‘writing’ down a recipe.  Mom believed strongly in keeping the written word alive and did her part as often as possible, whether it was through a birthday card to a loved one, a note to a friend, or an ingredients list followed by instructions jotted down on a 3×5-inch card.  Going through this process has inspired me to write down my own treasured recipes, the ones that might matter to my daughter one day.
Kentucky Blackberry Jam Cake RecipeWith the start of the New Year I was inspired once again to re-visit the project of archiving my Mom’s recipes.  Coincidentally, at the same time, I was thoroughly engrossed in a new cookbook titled American Cake by Anne Byrn.  I actually ‘read’ my cookbooks and my favorites are the ones that are steeped in historical context.  American Cake is one such book.  Along with an intriguing history of the evolution of cake in America over the past two hundred plus years, her book is brimming with beautiful photos and enticing recipes sandwiched from cover to cover.  One cake in particular caught my attention and transported me back to my Kentucky Girl childhood.  It was a version of the famous Kentucky Blackberry Jam Cake.  By the time I closed the back cover of the book, I knew I wasn’t going to rest until I sank my teeth into a bite of spiced cake, enriched with blackberry jam and coated in caramel frosting.
Kentucky Blackberry Jam Cake RecipeAs lovely as the Jam Cake in Anne’s book was, for nostalgic reasons I wanted to make our family’s version of the cake.  I remembered it vividly from my childhood and was convinced that a copy of it must be buried somewhere among my Mom’s recipes.  Without hours and hours of searching, I knew it would be nearly impossible to put my hands on it.  Desire and determination led me back to the mission of getting her recipes in order.  What happened next was nothing short of a miracle.  The third recipe I put my hands on was for Kentucky Blackberry Jam Cake penned in my Mom distinctive handwriting.  Chills shot down my spine and an ear to ear smile came over my face as I felt a big heavenly hug from Mom.  It was the nudge I needed to carry on with the project of securing her recipe legacy for generations to come.  Instead of feeling loss and grief, I felt connected and joyful.

The project is coming along beautifully.  The hundreds of recipes are organized and ready to be scanned.  I’m taking suggestions on great recipe archiving software, so if you know of one I welcome your suggestion.
Kentucky Blackberry Jam Cake Recipe

 




7 thoughts on “Kentucky Blackberry Jam Cake

  1. Great post! I agree, there is nothing better than a hand written recipe passed down. They really do hold so much sentimental value to them ❤

  2. Mary I love your sentiments about your mom and how hard her passing was (and probably still is as I know mine was and still is to me). I can’t wait to try this cake which I’ve never heard of being that I’m Samoan and we like stuff made from island ingredients plentiful back home—basically coconut heh heh. Becsuse our culture is built on verbal history that’s the way it is with our cooking, nothing written down just passed down. Sadly my mom’s “recipes” left with her but one I have is for my favorite type of pudding that was adapted from the English missionaries who made it for the island natives in the 19th century. I made my mom spend the night with me once just so I could watch her make it—how do you record a ‘cup’ of flour when she used a coffee mug too big for tea but too small for cocoa? Or a ‘spoon’ of sugar when she actually used a large old stainless steel kitchen utility spoon that had a U. S. Navy stamp on it but is lost to me forever? I’ll figure it out when I’m brave enough to tackle her “recipe” which I recorded faithfully in my hastily scribbled notes. Too bad phones with cameras weren’t invented then or I could’ve had a video of her explaining in her accented English instructions recorded forever to go back to whenever I wanted (shaky sigh). I just wanted to thank you for your lovely posts and tell you I’ll be writing down more recipes in the hopes that my daughter, who has more interest in shopping than cooking will look back on them and remember when I used to make her favorite dishes upon request, with all my heart. — Lili
    PS. And I can’t wait try this lovely Kentuck’ black jam cake recipe! Like your other recipes I know this will be a new classic favorite! Take care!

    • Lili, thank you for such a lovely response to my post. I can completely relate to the vagueness in which old recipes were written. I have many of my grandmother’s recipes and she too wrote instructions in a cryptic fashion. Please let me know if you make the cake! In the meantime, happy baking…and go write down some recipes! 😉

  3. Your beautiful post has left me grasping for words. Keeping your mom’s memory alive with her recipes is a joyful ode to family and tradition. But even more so, food memories are filled with intense sensory emotions and powerfully tie the past to the here and now.

    I lost my mom in 2014 and every time I make one of her recipes or one of her favorites, I can feel her presence. Take good care of your self as you embark on the journey of organizing and preserving her recipes as the memories will be intense. Pause to take a break when you need to, grieving takes many forms and more time, lots of time. Time, it softens, the sharp edges bend, but does not dull.

    And the cake! On this cold, stormy morning I would enjoy a slice. Another cup of coffee and this lush cake, flooded with memories, spice and jam, what more could I ask for?

    • Deb, I actually thought of you while writing this post. I remembered that you too had lost your Mom relatively recently and that you would probably relate to my post. Thanks for the advice, I’m sure the experience will come with highs and lows. It is impossible for my emotions not to get stirred up whenever I am so close to my Mom’s things. Holding her recipes in my hands is as close as I will ever get again to holding her. XX

  4. A beautiful post and tribute to a genuinely wonderful woman (and cook). When I close my eyes, I can still taste her fried chicken! I look forward to trying the cake and putting it in my recipe box next to my Mullikin brown bread recipe, butter cookie recipe and countless others.

    • Brown bread is on my agenda. I’ve been craving it. Not sure if it’s because of the weather being cooler or if it’s because I have been going through so many or my family’s recipes. Either way, it has been way too long and I’m really looking forward to a warm slice right from the oven and all slathered with butter.

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